VietNamNet Bridge – The strict conditions laid out for surrrogacy in the law recently approved by the National Assembly opens a very narrow door for women incapable of child-bearing. Viet Nam News spoke about this issue to lawmakers and women that the law intends to help.

After much discussion and debate, the National Assembly finally agreed to legalise surrogacy on humanitarian grounds. What is your opinion on this development?

Nguyen Huy Quang, Head of the Legal Department of the Ministry of Health

It is true that opinions were quite different on this issue. There were deputies who felt that the law should allow surrogacy, while others warned that such a move would have many legal and social consequences.

The NA passed the law on humanitarian grounds. As a person who works in the legal field under the Ministry of Health, I think the move affirms a basic human right: the right to have children.

Besides, Viet Nam has the medical know-how for carrying out surrogacy. So I think it's a chance for couples to have their own babies. There are 16 hospitals in the country capable of helping couples with in vitro fertilisation (IVF), which is the first step for surrogacy.

Nguyen Si Dung, Vice Chairman of the National Assembly Office

I think the humanitarian aspect has won this debate. However, it's only a modest victory. Although the door has been opened, it has opened narrowly. Only relatives are allowed to be surrogate mothers; you can't ask anyone else to do that for you. A mother can't be the surrogate mother for her daughter, and vice versa. Besides, there are a lot of conditions and requirements that you have to meet, or proof you have to produce, to be able to carry out the surrogacy legally.

Nguyen Si Dung

 

Even in many developed countries, surrogacy on humanitarian grounds is still something that is not legalised. Will it be feasible to enforce the law in Viet Nam? Will it be difficult to prevent surrogacy for commercial purposes?

Huy Quang: The amended Law on Marriage and Family contains very detailed regulations about surrogacy for humanitarian purposes. I think the feasibility is high and we can mostly prevent surrogacy for commercial purposes.

Si Dung: With such strict requirements and a narrow path, I don't think law enforcement would be a big problem. However, in reality, in Viet Nam, people who are willing to be surrogate mothers are typically those in financial difficulties. If such difficulties still exist, it means they will be willing to do it for commercial purposes.

The law was passed based on a majority vote, which means there are still many NA deputies who disagree with the choice to legalise surrogacy.

Actually, we should keep in mind that reality always changes faster than the law. Surrogacy is something that has happened already, and is still going on. The fact that the amended Law on Marriage and Family allows surrogacy for humanitarian purposes does not mean that such activities are encouraged. In fact, the law has considerably narrowed down the eligibility of such activities.

Anonymous 1 (a woman incapable of child bearing, who does not want to be named)

Lawmakers should keep in mind that when couples come to the decision of surrogacy, they must have experienced many desperate situations. Having children is the most wonderful thing of all, and I know there are many couples in the country who have not had this great joy.

The Ministry of Health is drafting a follow-up decree to the law on surrogacy with detailed provisions, Deputy Minister Nguyen Viet Tien has said. He has also said that the ministry would choose several creditable hospitals/agencies to implement and manage surrogacy. According to the recently passed amended Law on Marriage and Family, couples who want surrogacy have to provide proof from authorized medical organizations that: n the wife is not capable of child bearing: no uterus, or has had her uterus removed because of some medical condition, or uterus malformation n the wife has some medical conditions that disallows pregnancy n the couple has not had a child before n the surrogate mother must be a relative of either the wife or the husband, who has already given birth and is of eligible age n the surrogate mother can only perform the surrogacy once The decree is expected to come into force early next year.

All we want, when we have decided that we will ask someone to be the surrogate mother, is that we are able to hold a baby in our hands. That wish, that desire is so strong that we, to be honest, don't care what the law allows and what it doesn't. Yes it's true that in some cases, asking a relative to be surrogate mother is feasible, but for many couples that might not be the case. So does that mean those couples have to follow the law and kill their wish of being real parents? As Vietnamese people, we always want a baby born from our own flesh and bones, so let's not talk about adopting a child who is not our blood.

Anonymous2 (another woman incapable of child bearing)

We are totally disappointed with the new law.

We are a group of unlucky women who are not capable of bearing children. We want to look for good women who are in financial difficulties, who need some money and are willing to be surrogate mothers for us. It's a win-win solution – we desire babies very much, they can solve their financial problems.

In my case, it's been very difficult to find someone who is suitable to be a surrogate mother for our babies. If I haven't been able to find out one so easily when we have such a large population in this country, I don't think it will be easier looking among the much smaller pool of my relatives.

Moreover, we want the baby to belong only to us. But if we ask someone who is our relative to do so, we would feel like we owe them for the rest of our lives, and what the law can't regulate is the feeling between the surrogate mother and the baby. Although the law says the baby would legally be the child of the intended couples who gave their sperms and eggs, all those who have had babies naturally know how the string develops between the mother and the babies during the pregnancy. Thus, we want some stranger to do it for us, so that no further relationship need be maintained once we receive our babies.

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