What is the situation regarding the sexual abuse of children in Viet Nam?

* Ngo Thi Minh, vice chairwoman of the National Assembly Committee for Culture, Education, Youth and Children:

Ngo Thi Minh

The number of childhood sexual abuse cases in Viet Nam has been increasing in recent years. Many cases have been detected and denounced. But many cases of childhood sexual harassment remain undetected.

* Pham Thi Hai Ha, deputy head of the Child Care and Protection Department under the Ministry of Labour, Invalids and Social Affairs:

According to the latest ministry statistics, an estimated 1,000 Vietnamese children are sexually abused each year. But the real number of Vietnamese children being sexually abused may be much higher than estimated. The reported number is only the tip of the iceberg.

Pham Thi Hai Ha

In Viet Nam, sexual abuse - especially of children - is such a culturally sensitive issue that the families of both victims and offenders do not expect such incidents to be publicly revealed. A victim’s family fears the incident will harm the future of their child while an offender’s family fears that they will be scorned by the public.

Most child sexual abuse offenders are relatives and acquaintances of victims’ families. Sexual offenders take advantage of naive children to sexually abuse them because children are not wary of their relatives or of people they know.

In urban areas, children who use the internet to chat and make online friends are often targeted by sexual abuse offenders. Ministry surveys reveal that male children addicted to online gaming and internet, who leave their hometown to go to big cities to earn money, are among the highest risk groups for sexual abuse. Sexual abuse leads to physical damage and to long-term psychological trauma for children.

What causes childhood sexual abuse and the problems related to it?

Minh: Reasons include lack of responsibility on the part of child protection agencies. Many victims decide not to report their molesters, due to threats and lack of attention from their parents and family members. Many victims’ families feel ashamed to tell others that their children have been sexually abused.

Homeless children face the highest risk of being sexually harassed.

Families from the provinces move to big cities where their children are more likely to suffer to such offenses because their parents are busy at work.

Strict regulations and severe punishment must be applied, in order to deter childhood sexual abuse. But in many cases, the police, local authorities and even victims’ families can not prove childhood sexual abuse which leads to failure to bring suspected criminals to court.

The most important reason for childhood sexual abuse of Vietnamese children is that traditional moralities are being disregarded.

Adults, especially parents, are busy at work. So they spend less time taking care of their children. They fail to acknowledge the potential risks to their children. Meanwhile, children face more risks from modern life than they did in the past.

Many men are lazy or unemployed. They drink wine all day, lack responsibility and are self-indulgent. All of this contributes to male sexual harassment behaviors.

Many parents also lack awareness of how to protect their children from sexual abuse.

There is also a lack of well-qualified grassroots level officers and activists to protect children and settle issues related to childhood sexual abuse.

Ha: Parents who fail to teach their children to protect themselves from sexual offenders are blamed for the resulting sexual abuse. Parents must tell their children about body parts that other people are not allowed to touch without permission. Children must know how to say no if people try to touch to them. These are very important things that a child must know to avoid being sexually abused. So the role of parents is vital.

In other countries, such as Britain, a child as young as three years old will be taught about body parts, good touch and bad touch. Private parts are any place that your swimming suit covers. Good touch is the touch that makes us smile or feel warm. Bad touch will make us feel scared and anxious.

* Nguyen Van Anh, director of the Centre for Studies and Applied Sciences in Gender, Family, Women and Adolescents (CSAGA):

Nguyen Van Anh

Teaching children about sex education in school is not very effective. Most teachers are shy when teaching children about sex education and private parts. The result is that children are also embarrassed to talk or learn about these topics. It’s sad but true that some children are even afraid to tell their parents after being sexually abused because they worry their parents may shout at them.

How can we help children avoid sexual abuse?

Minh: Community-based child protection networks have been set up in many provinces and cities. They are responsible for protecting local children, detecting risks, and rescuing children from danger. But they also need to increase local community knowledge of child protection issues.

The launch of the Family and Juvenile Court, the country’s first specialised court for children, also aims to protect children better.

The National Assembly passed the Child Law on April 5. The law stipulates children’s rights and duties, principles and measures to ensure the enforcement of children’s rights, the responsibilities of State agencies, organisations, educational establishments, families and individuals to exercise children’s rights and duties.

Our children will be better protected if families, schools, agencies, organisations and individuals carry out the law properly.

We also need more activists, officials working in the child protective services network, and people who love children to protect them from danger.

Ha: Parents are advised to give more care to their kids and to talk with them more often, so they can become friends with their kids. Being straightforward is the best way to tell kids about the rules of private parts. Vietnamese teachers should learn from foreign countries’ experiences and find a suitable way to teach children about sex education and private parts - instead of using shyness as an excuse not to do their job as adults and protect children from sexual predators.

The department will co-operate with international organisations for technical support as planned. The goal is to improve skills for parents and schools in order to help children avoid harm from sexual offenders.

Van Anh: The Ministry of Education is committed to developing a suitable sex-education programme for students from primary through high school, to ensure these children learn enough to protect themselves from sexual offenders. The programme will be adjusted to suit each age group.

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